L is for love.
Choosing a gift for your long term partner should be easy, right?
The reality is, it can actually be a lot harder because you both seen plenty of Valentine’s days during your time tested relationship, and birthdays, anniversaries, Christmases and so many other gift giving occasions it can be a struggle to come up with ideas sometimes.
Are you even bothering to celebrate Valentine’s Day anymore?
Research has shown that the longer a couple are together the less likely they are to celebrate Valentine’s Day and I know there are reasonable arguments for not following this tradition, like having a wedding anniversary, monetary restrictions, family commitments or maybe you just do your own celebration of your love whenever you feel like it.
So what about Valentine’s Day this year?
Whatever your personal circumstances, whether you spend a lot or a little time together, why not rekindle the Valentine’s Day magic with one of these ideas?
10 Valentine’s Day ideas for long-term couples.
1) Make a time Capsule or Collage.
Time to let leash your creative side, if you’ve been hoarding all those ticket stubs from your first cinema date, holidays, honeymoon, comedy gigs, concerts, days out and so on, then let your creative juices flow with photos and other memory prompts and make a time capsule of your relationship. It will certainly bring back memories and give you both an opportunity to reminisce.
2) Romantic meal for two at home.
This is probably nothing new but it has been said that “Cooking is love made visible” (Anonymous) and if you’re not the one frequently wearing the chef’s hat in your relationship, then making an effort to create a special breakfast, brunch, lunch, picnic, or dinner, creating a romantic meal for two will certainly show you care to your other half.
3) Create a playlist.
Use whatever means you have, be it vinyl, CD, or any other format and create a playlist of songs that have meaning to you both. It could be the tune from club where you first met, that song playing in the pub on your first date, your first dance song from your wedding, even that annoying tune from your summer holiday that was played everywhere and you both actually hate but somehow brings back great memories.
4) Write and old fashioned love letter.
Let’s face it, not many of us put pen to paper these days. Actually taking a little time to stop and think about all the things you love about and being with your partner can not only put a new perspective on your relationship but putting it in writing for your other half to read will strengthen your bond.
5) Take a walk together.
Getting out and about in the great outdoors is a brilliant way to share some quality time together. A quiet stroll in the countryside or even a wander around the historic sights of your local town or city can be all it takes to show your love for your partner and that you love spending time with them.
6) Spa at Home.
Sharing a little “us time” with some pampering products can be fun. Stock up on ready made products when you’re out shopping or go the whole hog and make your own face masks, hair treatments and body scrubs. You’ll both look and feel fab inside and out afterwards.
7) Try something new together.
If you have never tried an activity before but fancy giving it a go, then trying something new together could be just what you need. Yoga, golf, horse riding, salsa… it can be anything. If you don’t like it that’s fine you never have to do it again, but you might have fun together finding out.
8) Play truant.
Valentine’s Day this year is on a Saturday, so why not make a weekend of it? Book a quick getaway and make the most of the weekend. Got kids? They could probably benefit from a sleepover at the Grandparents, or best mates house. If you really want to be be naughty, tell them you’re going away but have your romantic weekend at home instead, shh you’re secret is safe with me :-).
9) Visit the romantic village of Saint Valentin, Indre France.
This rural village oozes romance as their namesake suggests. You can walk in the lover’s garden, eat a romantic meal for two at the restaurant or even renew your commitment to each other at the mayor’s office who will even give you a certificate of confirmation. (This can actually be done on any day of the year, so don’t worry if you cant make it on the 14th February). There are also lots of other activities and events taking place here on the Valentine weekend including music and walks.
10) Start a new tradition.
It could be anything, the sky is the limit.
Still need a little help?
You can always buy a unique card from my range here or you can browse a few Valentine’s Day gift ideas from my online shop.
Have a happy Valentine’s Day. x
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